Style Tips for Modern Mother of the Bride
The mother of the bride (MOB)—that cherished role in American wedding fashion that walks the delicate line between “Here comes the bride” and “Hey, remember me? I’m fabulous too!” For those of you stepping into these stylish shoes, let’s get you runway-ready with the tips I have for you.
American wedding fashion is as diverse as its people, echoing decades of changes, from the flapper dresses of the 1920s to the bold choices of the modern era. Your outfit can be a nod to tradition or a leap into the contemporary; what matters is that it reflects you.
Embrace Your Inner Fashionista
First off, let’s address the age-old question: “What color do I wear?” Tradition dictates anything but white, reserved for the bride as her spotlight color. But this isn’t the 1800s, and you’re not wearing a corset (unless you want to, no judgment here). Navy, sage, and even soft metallics mother of the bride dresses can be your best friends. They’re the George Clooneys of color—timelessly elegant and surprisingly adaptable. Just remember to coordinate with the wedding palette; you want to complement, not clash or, heaven forbid, match the bridesmaids so closely that you’re mistaken for one and handed a bouquet to carry down the aisle.
Next, let’s talk style. The essence of American wedding fashion is all about embracing individuality while respecting the occasion. Gone are the days when MOBs were expected to don matronly dresses that screamed “sideline.” Today, it’s all about selecting something that flatters and feels fabulous, whether that’s an A-line dress, a tailored suit, or a sophisticated jumpsuit. Yes, jumpsuits! They’re like the culinary equivalent of a perfectly balanced dish—unexpected yet delightful.
Comfort, dear MOBs, should be your guiding star. Those weddings are marathons, not sprints. Opt for fabrics that whisper against your skin and shoes that say, “I can dance all night” rather than “I’ll be sitting this one out.” Think of your shoes as loyal pets: you want them well-behaved and not causing a scene.
Accessory-wise, less is often more. A statement piece can say, “I’m the MOB, and I’ve still got it,” whereas too many jewels may scream, “I’ve raided every jewelry box I’ve ever owned.” Choose pieces that bring joy and perhaps carry a whisper of sentimentality—a brooch, a pair of earrings, or a bracelet that tells a story.
In terms of etiquette, do confer with the mother of the groom. It’s not about getting her approval, but about building bridges and ensuring you both feel confident and coordinated. It’s like being dance partners at this grand ball; you don’t want to step on each other’s toes.
To wrap it up with a neat bow (or a tasteful corsage, if you prefer), remember the ultimate style tip: wear confidence. It’s the one accessory that never goes out of fashion. The day will be a whirlwind of emotion, but amidst it all, your role is pivotal. You’re not just the mother of the bride; you’re the matriarch of a memorable day, a beacon of poise and grace.
Accessorize with Intention
Hair Hooray!
Your crowning glory on the big day should whisper elegance, not scream high-maintenance. Think of a style that complements your outfit and doesn’t require a personal weather station to maintain. Updos are classic and can range from sleek chignons to soft, romantic curls. If you’re more of a “let it flow” lady, consider soft waves that say, “I woke up like this,” but in reality, took two hours and a professional. The key is looking effortlessly yourself, which paradoxically can require effort.
Stepping in Style: Shoes
Shoes must follow the golden rule of wedding attendance: you shall dance the night away without contemplating foot amputation at midnight. Heels are lovely, but consider a height that won’t require a week’s worth of foot massages post-wedding. Block heels, elegant flats, or kitten heels can be just as chic and infinitely kinder to your feet. Think of your shoes as a trusty steed, ready to carry you through the day with dignity and grace, not a torture device that leaves you hobbling.
Bag it up Beautifully
Less is more when it comes to your MOB bag. A small clutch or a sophisticated minaudière will do the trick—just enough space for your essentials: phone, lipstick, tissues (for those happy tears), and maybe a small vial of patience. It’s like a magic trick; you only need to carry the essentials but make sure they’re accessible in a snap.
Makeup: The Art of War Paint
Weddings are emotional, long, and often involve being photographed more times in one day than the rest of the year combined. Think enduring elegance for your makeup. A primer will help your war paint stay put, a good foundation matched to your skin tone will keep things smooth, and waterproof mascara is a must (because if you’re not tearing up at some point, are you even at a wedding?). However, remember, the aim is to enhance, not remodel. You want to look like the best version of yourself, not launch a search party for the woman your family recognizes.
Shopping Smart & Tailoring Wise
When it comes to finding that dream outfit, it’s a jungle out there. Start your expedition early; it gives you the luxury of choice and the peace that comes with not having to make a decision under duress. Now, should you fall in love with a dress that doesn’t fit like a glove, remember, a great tailor is like a fairy godmother. They can’t make a pumpkin into a carriage, but they sure can tweak that dress to make you feel like royalty. Investing in tailoring means investing in feeling confident and comfortable, and that, my dear, is worth every penny.
And, if your chosen attire doesn’t scream “this is the one” at first fitting, don’t despair. Sometimes, it’s just waiting for those personal touches. The right alterations, accessories, hair, and makeup can transform a dress from “maybe” to “made for me.”
So there you have the full ensemble of tips! With these pearls of wisdom, you’re all set to navigate the treacherous but terrific waters of MOB fashion. Keep your wits, humor, and elegance about you, and remember, when the big day comes, it’s all about celebrating love (and your sensational sense of style, of course). Cheers to being the most fabulous MOB the wedding world has ever seen!
Trusty MOB Emergency Kit
The esteemed Mother of the Bride First-Aid Kit—a concept so savvy, it’s akin to bringing an umbrella to a forecasted sunny day because, well, you just never know. And let’s face it, at weddings, much like at picnics, ants (or in this case, tiny emergencies) have a way of showing up uninvited. Arm yourself with a trusty MOB Emergency Kit, and you’ll be more prepared than a Boy Scout with a Swiss Army knife at a camping convention.
Safety Pins & Mini Sewing Kit: Because the only thing that should be splitting at a wedding is the dance floor—under some groovy moves, not the seams of a dress.
Blister Plasters & Gel Inserts: A nod to those who dare to dance the night away in new shoes, or as I like to call them, “glamour traps.”
Tissues: For the moments that are so touching, even the cake starts to well up.
Stain Remover Pen: Because the only stains we welcome are the “stains” of wonderful memories—not red wine on a white dress.
Breath Mints: To ensure that when you’re whispering sweet nothings or directives to the wedding party, it’s remembered for the message, not the delivery.
Hairpins & Hair Spray: For when “letting your hair down” becomes more literal than anyone intended.
Compact Mirror & Lipstick: For touch-ups because looking your best is not a one-off event at a wedding; it’s a marathon.
Aspirin or Ibuprofen: In case of headaches, brought on by anything from the DJ’s choice of music to realizing you forgot to put the caterer’s check in the mail.
Snacks: A small stash of something to nibble on because fainting from hunger midway through the vows is more dramatic than we aim for.
Hand Sanitizer & Band-Aids: For cleanliness and minor mishaps. After all, the only thing we want ‘infected’ is everyone with joy and happiness.
Consider this kit your purse-sized peace of mind. It’s like being a superhero, but instead of a cape, you have a clutch. With this by your side, you’re not just the Mother of the Bride; you’re the Guardian of the Gala, the Protector of the Party.
So, march forth with your First-Aid Kit, ready to tackle any hiccup with the grace and foresight only a MOB can exhibit. And above all, remember, the day is about love, laughter, and two people starting a beautiful journey together (with you, cleverly equipped, ensuring it all goes off without a hitch).
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